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How to have a legal handfasting in England or Wales
Can you have a legal handfasting in England or Wales? When you decided to have a handfasting, the first question was probably whether you can have a legal handfasting in England and Wales. If you ask on social media, there will be many who tell you that you can't have...
Your Handfasting Cord
What is a Handfasting Cord or Handfasting RibbonThe handfasting cord is a woven or stiched cord or ribbon used for the ritual binding of your hands during your handfasting ceremony. You will be joining hands and your celebrant or high priest(ess) will wrap a...
Why Using a Friend as Your Wedding Photographer Is a Terrible Idea
Using Your Friend as Your Wedding Photographer is a Disaster Waiting to Happen You might say that, of course, I would say that having a friend as your wedding photographer is a crap idea, because I want you to book me. But no, that’s not it. I advise against using...
What is the difference between editing and retouching of your photos?
The Difference Between Editing and Retouching Your Wedding PhotosFor anyone who isn’t a photographer or filmmaker, the whole post-processing can be a bit of a blur. To make it a little less confusing, let’s look at what the difference between retouching and editing...
5 Steps to Planning Your Perfect Dry Hire Wedding
Planning Your Perfect Dry Hire WeddingVenues like rustic barns, secluded fields, and romantic woodlands are great places for a handfasting. But planning your perfect dry hire wedding is a lot more work than at a venue that does all the setup and catering for you. So...
3 ways to include non-pagan wedding guests at your handfasting
How to ionclude non-pagan wedding guestsMost of us have a mix of people at our wedding, and it is very likely that you will have non-pagan wedding guests at your handfasting. There are two types of wedding guests. The ones who go with the flow and just enjoy the...
3 Tips to Planning the Perfect Autumn Outdoor Wedding
How to plan an autumn outdoor weddingYou are probably considering an autumn outdoor wedding because you just love autumn. There are many reasons why it is high season for handfastings. Like the thinning of the veil, Samhain and pagan new year being the perfect time...
How A Bright Sunny Wedding Day Can Ruin Your Photos
A sunny wedding day can make for terrible photos I keep talking with my couples about the weather. Specifically, what to do in case of bad weather on your wedding day – or weather that’s too good. Like what problems does a bright sunny wedding day create for your...
Get Great Photos Despite Stormy Weather on Your Wedding Day
Bad weather on your wedding day I keep talking with my couples about the weather. Specifically, what to do in case of bad weather like stormy weather on your wedding day – or weather that’s too good. And this is not small talk! The weather can and does impact your...
Great Photos Despite Bad Weather on Your Wedding Day
Bad weather on your wedding day I keep talking with my couples about two things, one is what to do in case of bad weather on your wedding day – or weather that’s too good. And this is not small talk! The other thing I keep talking about is keeping the organised photos...
3 Reasons Not To Hire a Photographer Who Has Already Worked at Your Venue Before
Why not to hire a photographer who has worked at your venue beforeI know that every other wedding blog and wedding magazine has it drummed into you from day one of planning y our wedding that you must find a photographer who has worked at your venue before. It has...
The Mill House Wedding Photographer Reading – a summer reception
A Summer Wedding Reception - Mill House Wedding Photographer Reading As the Mill House Wedding Photographer, I was a bit sad to hear that the ceremony had to be held elsewhere. This venue just has the most beautiful outdoor wedding space. But wow! What a fantastic...
Do you get better photos at a childfree wedding?
"Do you get better photos at a childfree wedding?"I know I will get stick for putting this headline on! But hey, the question is out there, so I am going to answer it from the photographers point of view. Childfree weddings are a thing. And if one of the reason you...
What is an unplugged ceremony? And 3 reasons why you shouldn’t have one!
What is an unplugged ceremony or an unplugged wedding? You will read the expression on blogs and in wedding magazines, but what is an unplugged ceremony? Unplugged means, that your guests leave their phones and cameras in their pockets.So the only person taking photos...
The importance of choosing the location for your wedding cake carefully
Why to choose carefully where to put your wedding cake So, are you here because good photos of your cake are important to you, or are you simply wondering why a photographer should care about the location for your wedding cake will be set up? I can't deny it, I care...
All you need to know about wedding portraits
All there is to know about Wedding portraits The wedding portraits are the photos of just the bride and groom. Then there are also the group photos, which are photos of all of your guests and smaller groups you have chosen to have a posed photo taken with you. Today,...
What is a first look wedding photo
The much mentioned First Look Wedding PhotoYou see it written in blogs. You see it talked about on social media. But what actually is a first look wedding photo? And why the hell should you have one?What is a first look wedding photo?A first look is what it says on...
Should you take the dog on honeymoon?
Taking the dog on honeymoon, or rather not? Should we take our dog on honeymoon? Hmmm, let’s see… If you asked me if you should take your dog on holiday with you, I would answer with a resounding YES! A honeymoon however, is something special, so that is a different...
3 Steps to Avoid Wedding Planning Stress
(Just in case you are wondering: you can't book the businesses in the screenshot of a folder organised to avoid wedding planning stress. I made them up. All except my own. Any similarity with real business names and people is purely coincidental.)3 Simples ways to...
What happens if your Wedding Photographer gets ill?
What happens if your wedding photographer suddenly gets ill?The worry of your wedding photographer suddenly getting ill and unable to photograph your wedding is a real. I hear it from my couples. And I totally get it! I have been a bride myself. So let me reassure...
3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Have An Engagement Photo Shoot
Why an engagement photo shoot can be a really bad idea A lot of photographers offer an engagement photo shoot as a bolt on to your wedding booking. But there is something you should know, to make sure you are not wasting your money. What even is an engagement photo...
How to find a handfasting celebrant
How to find a celebrant for your handfastingIn my previous blog I told you why I like a celebrant led handfasting and what you need to know to decide whether it is for you. Since you are here, I take it you are planning on having a celebrant. So let’s have a look...
Should you hire a celebrant for your handfasting ceremony?
Why you should have a celebrant-led wedding or handfasting ceremony How much do you remember of the last registry office wedding you went to? The exchange of the rings? The first kiss? Maybe a reading? That's pretty much it, isn't it! That is because registrar-led and...
How to make a schedule for your wedding photos that works
Scheduling for your wedding and how to get the timings rightThe duration of some aspects of your wedding will be very obvious and written in stone, like your ceremony. But other timings at your wedding are less obvious. So here is some help on how to decide on timings...
Why and how to chose just 2 locations for wedding photos!
Choosing locations for your formal wedding photosSome venues have a small number of very obvious locations you can chose for your formal wedding photos. At other venues, there are enough to choose from that we could fill an entire album by taking just one photo in...
3 Steps to Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Photographer
Finding the Right Wedding Photographer In my previous blog, we spoke about what the different styles of wedding photography mean. Now let’s find out how to choose a wedding photographer. Sounds easy this choosing a wedding photographer, doesn’t it. Get some quotes,...
What are the Different Wedding Photography Styles
The different wedding photography styles and what they mean? You are looking for a wedding photographer but there are just so many. You have already narrowed it down by location, but which of the different wedding photography styles is the one for you? Your wedding...
What is the Best Season for Perfect Wedding Photos in the UK?
What is the best season for perfect wedding and handfasting photos in the UK? You are planning your wedding or handfasting, and you know that one thing that will last you for years are your photos. But you are not sure what season is the best season to achieve perfect...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Winter?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: winter wedding photos?In this series of blog posts, I am looking at each season and talk about how it will look in your wedding photos.My last blog looked at autumn wedding photos. Which, of course, means in this blog...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Autumn?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: autumn wedding photos?In this series of blog posts, I will be looking at each season and how it will look in your wedding photos. But I am particularly excited about this one, because it is about my favourite season:...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Summer?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: summer wedding photos? In this series of blog posts, I will be looking at each season and how it will look in your wedding photos.At the end, we will have a bit of a round up, just in case you are still unsure what...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Spring?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: spring wedding photos?In this series of blog posts, I will be looking at each season and how it will look in your wedding photos. In the end, we will have a bit of a round up, just in case you are unsure what season is...
The Difference Between Natural Light and Natural Photographer
Natural light or Natural Wedding Photographer: What's the Difference? The two terms natural-light and natural photographer describe different approaches to photography. The are not interchangeable! They don’t even relate to the same aspect of photography. Natural...
Saving Money on Your Wedding – a Warning!
Things that won't be saving money on your wedding and whyThere are always lots of tips about how you could be saving money on your wedding. Recently one has grown wings that I feel I just have to warn you about. Because not only can it leave you out of pocket, it...
Receiving your wedding photos
How and when will you receive your alternative wedding photos?I've been asked what happens after your wedding and how you will be receiving your wedding photos... here is the truth, some of which you might not want to hear. Sorry! After I stop shooting, I go home and...
Booking Me As Your Alternative Wedding Photographer: How to and What Happens Next
Booking me as your Alternative Wedding Photographer So you think you might want to book me as your wedding photographer.If you have not yet sent me an enquiry, please read this blog that tells you how to enquire and what happens after I receive your enquiry. You have...
What to expect when you enquire for Alternative Wedding Photography
What to expect when you enquire for Alternative Wedding PhotographySo you had a look at the website and think I might be the right photographer for your wedding. But how do you enquire for my alternative wedding photography? And what happens after you have...
Are non-pagan handfastings cultural appropriation?
Are non-pagan handfastings ok or are they cultural appropriation?Are handfastings always a pagan wedding? And is it cultural appropriation to hold a non-pagan handfasting? Now there is a can of worms! Shall we open it??? It's like a childhood game of dare. Let's do...
How to get the best wedding confetti photos at eco-wedding
Get the best wedding confetti photos at your eco-weddingHow to get the best confetti photos at your eco-wedding is just one questions. You might think “wow! Confetti at an eco wedding?!? How’s that possible?” check out my blog about how you can find truly...
Does eco-friendly wedding confetti exist?
How to find eco-friendly confetti for you wedding or handfastingYou want confetti, but not sure whether it is appropriate for an eco-friendly wedding? Confetti makes fabulous photos. So while it can be a bit of a minefield finding eco-friendly wedding confetti, I...
How to take great Christmas photos
How to take great Christmas photos - my easy hacks for festive mobile phone photos It's the season of eating to many cookies and family coming together. I always love helping with the first, but I am pretty sure you wouldn't want me to. So let's talk about family...
The Green Wedding Photographer From South-East England
The Green Wedding Photographer from South-East England I know many couples are looking for sustainable and green wedding suppliers.But want does that actually mean? I have written a blog, three blogs actually, about what I do, because being as environmentally...
Sustainable Wedding Photography UK: The Many Small Steps I Take
How I provide truly sustainable wedding photography in the UK and EU Welcome to the third (and for now final) part in my series about what I do to provide you with truly environmentally friendly and sustainable wedding photography or handfasting photography. In part 1...
Environmentally Friendly Wedding Photography
How I provide environmentally friendly wedding photography - part 2 Welcome to part 2 of 3 in my series about what I do to help make your wedding or handfasting photography environmentally friendly. In part 1 I talked about why I photograph purely digital and never on...
Being an eco-friendly wedding photographer
What I do to be an eco-friendly wedding photographerI was wondering what else is important to my couples, and I realised that I have not told you about what I do to be an eco-friendly wedding photographer. I know that reducing the carbon footprint and have a...
Why I Became a Specialist Handfasting and Pagan Wedding Photographer
Why I Became a Specialist Handfasting and Pagan Wedding Photographer UKI have not always called myself a Specialist Handfasting and Pagan Wedding Photographer. I used to simply advertise for outdoor weddings. That’s all I had to do for ‘my people’ to be able to find...
How should your photographer deliver your wedding photos?
How should your photographer deliver your wedding photos? There are many ways to deliver your wedding photos. And different photographers have many different preferred methods. In this blog, I will explain how I deliver your wedding photos. The Sneak Peek After your...
Why you should only have 10 wedding group photos
Why you should only have 10 wedding group photos Some people naturally loathe spending time taking wedding group photos. Others absolutely love the idea of taking them. One thing both types of people have in common: on their wedding day, neither will want to spend a...
How to prevent losing all wedding photos: 10 things I do as a photographer
10 things I as a photographer do to prevent losing all wedding photos The biggest photography related fear of any couple getting married is that they end up with no photos of their wedding day. And unfortunately, it is not an irrational fear. It does happen, but there...
How to find a Handfasting Venue that’s Perfect for You
Find a handfasting venue that is perfect for you The first two things you need to decide on, before contacting any wedding suppliers, is a date and a venue for your handfasting, because they all will need to know this to give you a quote. If you are not sure about...
Your Beautiful Wedding Photo Gallery: in Colour or Black and White?
Your wedding photo gallery: in colour or black and white? Both!Do you wonder how your photographer will decide which photos of your wedding or handfasting to deliver in colour and which in black and white? And what do you do if there is a photo in colour that you want...
How to choose a date for your handfasting that is perfect for you
How to Choose a Date for Your HandfastingThere are a lot of things to consider when you choose a date for your handfasting. So here are the three main steps to help you decide on a date for your handfasting: You could just choose a date that is practical....
How to Set a Realistic Wedding Budget or Handfasting Budget
How to Set a Wedding Budget or Handfasting BudgetWell, first of all your budget will depend on what you can afford. The real question is how to allocate slices of this budget to the items and suppliers you need or want.Where to start with setting your wedding budget...
The True History of Handfasting
The History of Handfasting When it comes to the history of handfasting, there’s a lot to unpack and a lot of unknowns. Let's quickly recap...What is handfasting? Handfasting is a type of ancient wedding ceremony, which originated in the British Isles and in northern...
5 beautiful wedding traditions of pagan origin
You might be surprised about these 5 wedding traditions of pagan origin There are a lot of wedding traditions and rituals that just seems like they have always existed. And we never think about why we do them. Some of these are wedding traditions of pagan origin....
Is a Handfasting Legally Binding in these 8 Countries?
Can you get legally married in a handfasting ceremony? Is a handfasting legally binding? Yes! Somewhere! Indeed, here is a positive surprise for you: Yes, a handfasting can be a legally binding wedding ceremony. But not everywhere! Whether it is or not, depends first...
Your Handfasting Ceremony
What is a handfasting ceremony? Handfasting is a type of wedding ceremony prominent in pagan worship and increasingly popular for humanist ceremonies. If you’re looking for a general description of a handfasting, rather than the details of a handfasting ceremony, then...
The Ultimate Guide to Handfastings: What is a Handfasting
What is a Handfasting ?A handfasting is a type of wedding ceremony. It has ancient roots and it’s believed to be originating from the British Isles and northern Europe. During hand fasting, the hands of the couple are bound together with ribbon to symbolise the bond...
children at weddings and 3 strong reasons why I don’t share their photos without permission
Children at Weddings and 3 reasons Why I don’t share their photos without permission Children at weddings are cute and they really do make for the best un-posed photos and natural smiles.And they sell! If a bride with a two-year-old sees what fab photos I have...
Stoke Place Wedding Photographer Buckinghamshire – a perfect day!
Stoke Place Wedding Photographer:a Perfect Day! I was very excited when this enquiry dropped into my inbox. Not only because I had met the bride at her brother’s wedding many years ago and knew how lovely the family is, but also because of the venue they had chosen....
3 great reasons to have an outdoor wedding ceremony
3 great reasons to have an outdoor wedding ceremony Are you wondering whether or not to have an outdoors wedding or civil partnership? If you are in the UK, you are most likely concerned about what the weather will do on your big day. But don't dismiss and outdoor...
Outdoor Wedding Law Change: 5 Essential Things You Need to Know
5 Essential Things You Need to Know About the Outdoor Wedding Law ChangeSomething just hit the news and I am beyond excited! It has been spoken about for years, and was (almost) promised to happen a couple of years ago…and since then we’ve been waiting. The...
The Corona Wedding Roadmap: The Latest 2021 Wedding Restrictions Explained
2021 Wedding Restrictions: The Roadmap Explained Ha, Boris just said it, weddings are back on! From 8th March, you can get married again. The bad news is, that the number of guests will be restricted until at least the 21st June. What does that mean for our...
Avoiding Corona Wedding Restrictions in Surrey: Plan an Outdoor Wedding
Corona Wedding Restrictions: Are outdoor weddings the answer to the corona virus pandemic? A couple of years ago, outdoor weddings were a niche, and a small one at that.I squeezed myself into it simply because I love them. This year, we are finding our little niche...
Top 5 Outdoor Wedding Venues in Surrey
FIVE SURREY WEDDING VENUES FOR YOUR DREAM OUTDOOR WEDDING More and more venues are starting to cater for our wish to combine our love for the outdoors with our wedding. Some are all out there, others are traditional with an outdoor ceremony space. Some do have a...
Can I Get Married In 2020?
WHAT DOES THE GOVERNMENT SAY ABOUT YOUR 2020 WEDDING? Did you watch Boris last night? I did, too. Got any clarity about your wedding from it? Me neither. Well, the government released the roadmap for getting out of lockdown today and the good news is, it talks about...
Real Life Wedding: Rainy Wedding Day in the Cotswolds
What to Do When It Is Forecast to Rain on Your Wedding DayThe risk of rain is part and parcel of planning an outdoor wedding in the UK. But that is no reason not to do it! Here is a real-life example of the UK weather roulette, version: April wedding at the stunning...
How to Plan a Wedding During the Corona Virus Pandemic
YOUR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY AND COVID-19 (Obviously, things are changing all the time, but below information is correct at time of posting: 26th March 2020.)I received a meme yesterday morning saying:“Jan 1st: 2020, you gonna be MY year!Mar 25th: I am wiping my bum with...
The C-Word: Your Wedding and the Corona Virus
YOUR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY AND COVID-19 (Obviously, things are changing all the time, but below information is correct at time of posting: 26th March 2020.) Oh boy! Not the March you had planned? Me neither! Three weeks after showing first signs of illness, we are still...
What To Do If It Rains At Your Outdoor Wedding: 3 Things To Organise Early
Planning for a Wet WeddingIt’s no secret that in the UK, the weather can be a bit “disrespectful” of your outdoor wedding plans. So you better prepare in case it rains at your outdoor wedding.1. Have a Back-up Plan in Case It RainsThe most Important thing is to know...
Here’s a Stress Inducing Word: Wedding Budget
I know, no one wants to talk about money, but let’s be frank, we all have a budget. There is only one way to manage your budget and make sure you have enough left for the last bits you want to book or buy, and that is a spreadsheet. Boring, I know, but it will spare...
Are Bridesmaids Always Women?
Are bridesmaids always women and are best men always men?And do they have to be? That depends entirely on you. It is in fact an idea very prevalent in the English speaking world that has long fallen out of favour in many other countries. I suspect this goes back to...
Photography or Rock Music
How I became a Wedding Photographer in GuildfordIf you have read my FAQs, you will already know that my little girl’s dream was to become a singer. Sadly I soon realized that I have neither talent nor voice for the profession. But I didn’t give up. I love music, so I...
How to make your outdoor handfasting legally binding
How to make your outdoor handfasting legally binding? In my last blog, I spoke about the one place in England and Wales that can hold legally binding handfastings.(If you missed it, here is the link.) Since it is a primarily an indoors venue, some of you asked how to...
How to have a legal handfasting in England or Wales
Can you have a legal handfasting in England or Wales? When you decided to have a handfasting, the first question was probably whether you can have a legal handfasting in England and Wales. If you ask on social media, there will be many who tell you that you can't have...
Your Handfasting Cord
What is a Handfasting Cord or Handfasting RibbonThe handfasting cord is a woven or stiched cord or ribbon used for the ritual binding of your hands during your handfasting ceremony. You will be joining hands and your celebrant or high priest(ess) will wrap a...
Why Using a Friend as Your Wedding Photographer Is a Terrible Idea
Using Your Friend as Your Wedding Photographer is a Disaster Waiting to Happen You might say that, of course, I would say that having a friend as your wedding photographer is a crap idea, because I want you to book me. But no, that’s not it. I advise against using...
What is the difference between editing and retouching of your photos?
The Difference Between Editing and Retouching Your Wedding PhotosFor anyone who isn’t a photographer or filmmaker, the whole post-processing can be a bit of a blur. To make it a little less confusing, let’s look at what the difference between retouching and editing...
5 Steps to Planning Your Perfect Dry Hire Wedding
Planning Your Perfect Dry Hire WeddingVenues like rustic barns, secluded fields, and romantic woodlands are great places for a handfasting. But planning your perfect dry hire wedding is a lot more work than at a venue that does all the setup and catering for you. So...
3 ways to include non-pagan wedding guests at your handfasting
How to ionclude non-pagan wedding guestsMost of us have a mix of people at our wedding, and it is very likely that you will have non-pagan wedding guests at your handfasting. There are two types of wedding guests. The ones who go with the flow and just enjoy the...
3 Tips to Planning the Perfect Autumn Outdoor Wedding
How to plan an autumn outdoor weddingYou are probably considering an autumn outdoor wedding because you just love autumn. There are many reasons why it is high season for handfastings. Like the thinning of the veil, Samhain and pagan new year being the perfect time...
How A Bright Sunny Wedding Day Can Ruin Your Photos
A sunny wedding day can make for terrible photos I keep talking with my couples about the weather. Specifically, what to do in case of bad weather on your wedding day – or weather that’s too good. Like what problems does a bright sunny wedding day create for your...
Get Great Photos Despite Stormy Weather on Your Wedding Day
Bad weather on your wedding day I keep talking with my couples about the weather. Specifically, what to do in case of bad weather like stormy weather on your wedding day – or weather that’s too good. And this is not small talk! The weather can and does impact your...
Great Photos Despite Bad Weather on Your Wedding Day
Bad weather on your wedding day I keep talking with my couples about two things, one is what to do in case of bad weather on your wedding day – or weather that’s too good. And this is not small talk! The other thing I keep talking about is keeping the organised photos...
3 Reasons Not To Hire a Photographer Who Has Already Worked at Your Venue Before
Why not to hire a photographer who has worked at your venue beforeI know that every other wedding blog and wedding magazine has it drummed into you from day one of planning y our wedding that you must find a photographer who has worked at your venue before. It has...
The Mill House Wedding Photographer Reading – a summer reception
A Summer Wedding Reception - Mill House Wedding Photographer Reading As the Mill House Wedding Photographer, I was a bit sad to hear that the ceremony had to be held elsewhere. This venue just has the most beautiful outdoor wedding space. But wow! What a fantastic...
Do you get better photos at a childfree wedding?
"Do you get better photos at a childfree wedding?"I know I will get stick for putting this headline on! But hey, the question is out there, so I am going to answer it from the photographers point of view. Childfree weddings are a thing. And if one of the reason you...
What is an unplugged ceremony? And 3 reasons why you shouldn’t have one!
What is an unplugged ceremony or an unplugged wedding? You will read the expression on blogs and in wedding magazines, but what is an unplugged ceremony? Unplugged means, that your guests leave their phones and cameras in their pockets.So the only person taking photos...
The importance of choosing the location for your wedding cake carefully
Why to choose carefully where to put your wedding cake So, are you here because good photos of your cake are important to you, or are you simply wondering why a photographer should care about the location for your wedding cake will be set up? I can't deny it, I care...
All you need to know about wedding portraits
All there is to know about Wedding portraits The wedding portraits are the photos of just the bride and groom. Then there are also the group photos, which are photos of all of your guests and smaller groups you have chosen to have a posed photo taken with you. Today,...
What is a first look wedding photo
The much mentioned First Look Wedding PhotoYou see it written in blogs. You see it talked about on social media. But what actually is a first look wedding photo? And why the hell should you have one?What is a first look wedding photo?A first look is what it says on...
Should you take the dog on honeymoon?
Taking the dog on honeymoon, or rather not? Should we take our dog on honeymoon? Hmmm, let’s see… If you asked me if you should take your dog on holiday with you, I would answer with a resounding YES! A honeymoon however, is something special, so that is a different...
3 Steps to Avoid Wedding Planning Stress
(Just in case you are wondering: you can't book the businesses in the screenshot of a folder organised to avoid wedding planning stress. I made them up. All except my own. Any similarity with real business names and people is purely coincidental.)3 Simples ways to...
What happens if your Wedding Photographer gets ill?
What happens if your wedding photographer suddenly gets ill?The worry of your wedding photographer suddenly getting ill and unable to photograph your wedding is a real. I hear it from my couples. And I totally get it! I have been a bride myself. So let me reassure...
3 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Have An Engagement Photo Shoot
Why an engagement photo shoot can be a really bad idea A lot of photographers offer an engagement photo shoot as a bolt on to your wedding booking. But there is something you should know, to make sure you are not wasting your money. What even is an engagement photo...
How to find a handfasting celebrant
How to find a celebrant for your handfastingIn my previous blog I told you why I like a celebrant led handfasting and what you need to know to decide whether it is for you. Since you are here, I take it you are planning on having a celebrant. So let’s have a look...
Should you hire a celebrant for your handfasting ceremony?
Why you should have a celebrant-led wedding or handfasting ceremony How much do you remember of the last registry office wedding you went to? The exchange of the rings? The first kiss? Maybe a reading? That's pretty much it, isn't it! That is because registrar-led and...
How to make a schedule for your wedding photos that works
Scheduling for your wedding and how to get the timings rightThe duration of some aspects of your wedding will be very obvious and written in stone, like your ceremony. But other timings at your wedding are less obvious. So here is some help on how to decide on timings...
Why and how to chose just 2 locations for wedding photos!
Choosing locations for your formal wedding photosSome venues have a small number of very obvious locations you can chose for your formal wedding photos. At other venues, there are enough to choose from that we could fill an entire album by taking just one photo in...
3 Steps to Choosing Your Perfect Wedding Photographer
Finding the Right Wedding Photographer In my previous blog, we spoke about what the different styles of wedding photography mean. Now let’s find out how to choose a wedding photographer. Sounds easy this choosing a wedding photographer, doesn’t it. Get some quotes,...
What are the Different Wedding Photography Styles
The different wedding photography styles and what they mean? You are looking for a wedding photographer but there are just so many. You have already narrowed it down by location, but which of the different wedding photography styles is the one for you? Your wedding...
What is the Best Season for Perfect Wedding Photos in the UK?
What is the best season for perfect wedding and handfasting photos in the UK? You are planning your wedding or handfasting, and you know that one thing that will last you for years are your photos. But you are not sure what season is the best season to achieve perfect...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Winter?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: winter wedding photos?In this series of blog posts, I am looking at each season and talk about how it will look in your wedding photos.My last blog looked at autumn wedding photos. Which, of course, means in this blog...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Autumn?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: autumn wedding photos?In this series of blog posts, I will be looking at each season and how it will look in your wedding photos. But I am particularly excited about this one, because it is about my favourite season:...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Summer?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: summer wedding photos? In this series of blog posts, I will be looking at each season and how it will look in your wedding photos.At the end, we will have a bit of a round up, just in case you are still unsure what...
What is the Best Season for Wedding Photos: Spring?
What is the best season for your wedding photos: spring wedding photos?In this series of blog posts, I will be looking at each season and how it will look in your wedding photos. In the end, we will have a bit of a round up, just in case you are unsure what season is...
The Difference Between Natural Light and Natural Photographer
Natural light or Natural Wedding Photographer: What's the Difference? The two terms natural-light and natural photographer describe different approaches to photography. The are not interchangeable! They don’t even relate to the same aspect of photography. Natural...
Saving Money on Your Wedding – a Warning!
Things that won't be saving money on your wedding and whyThere are always lots of tips about how you could be saving money on your wedding. Recently one has grown wings that I feel I just have to warn you about. Because not only can it leave you out of pocket, it...
Receiving your wedding photos
How and when will you receive your alternative wedding photos?I've been asked what happens after your wedding and how you will be receiving your wedding photos... here is the truth, some of which you might not want to hear. Sorry! After I stop shooting, I go home and...
Booking Me As Your Alternative Wedding Photographer: How to and What Happens Next
Booking me as your Alternative Wedding Photographer So you think you might want to book me as your wedding photographer.If you have not yet sent me an enquiry, please read this blog that tells you how to enquire and what happens after I receive your enquiry. You have...
What to expect when you enquire for Alternative Wedding Photography
What to expect when you enquire for Alternative Wedding PhotographySo you had a look at the website and think I might be the right photographer for your wedding. But how do you enquire for my alternative wedding photography? And what happens after you have...
Are non-pagan handfastings cultural appropriation?
Are non-pagan handfastings ok or are they cultural appropriation?Are handfastings always a pagan wedding? And is it cultural appropriation to hold a non-pagan handfasting? Now there is a can of worms! Shall we open it??? It's like a childhood game of dare. Let's do...
How to get the best wedding confetti photos at eco-wedding
Get the best wedding confetti photos at your eco-weddingHow to get the best confetti photos at your eco-wedding is just one questions. You might think “wow! Confetti at an eco wedding?!? How’s that possible?” check out my blog about how you can find truly...
Does eco-friendly wedding confetti exist?
How to find eco-friendly confetti for you wedding or handfastingYou want confetti, but not sure whether it is appropriate for an eco-friendly wedding? Confetti makes fabulous photos. So while it can be a bit of a minefield finding eco-friendly wedding confetti, I...
How to take great Christmas photos
How to take great Christmas photos - my easy hacks for festive mobile phone photos It's the season of eating to many cookies and family coming together. I always love helping with the first, but I am pretty sure you wouldn't want me to. So let's talk about family...
The Green Wedding Photographer From South-East England
The Green Wedding Photographer from South-East England I know many couples are looking for sustainable and green wedding suppliers.But want does that actually mean? I have written a blog, three blogs actually, about what I do, because being as environmentally...
Sustainable Wedding Photography UK: The Many Small Steps I Take
How I provide truly sustainable wedding photography in the UK and EU Welcome to the third (and for now final) part in my series about what I do to provide you with truly environmentally friendly and sustainable wedding photography or handfasting photography. In part 1...
Environmentally Friendly Wedding Photography
How I provide environmentally friendly wedding photography - part 2 Welcome to part 2 of 3 in my series about what I do to help make your wedding or handfasting photography environmentally friendly. In part 1 I talked about why I photograph purely digital and never on...
Being an eco-friendly wedding photographer
What I do to be an eco-friendly wedding photographerI was wondering what else is important to my couples, and I realised that I have not told you about what I do to be an eco-friendly wedding photographer. I know that reducing the carbon footprint and have a...
Why I Became a Specialist Handfasting and Pagan Wedding Photographer
Why I Became a Specialist Handfasting and Pagan Wedding Photographer UKI have not always called myself a Specialist Handfasting and Pagan Wedding Photographer. I used to simply advertise for outdoor weddings. That’s all I had to do for ‘my people’ to be able to find...
How should your photographer deliver your wedding photos?
How should your photographer deliver your wedding photos? There are many ways to deliver your wedding photos. And different photographers have many different preferred methods. In this blog, I will explain how I deliver your wedding photos. The Sneak Peek After your...
Why you should only have 10 wedding group photos
Why you should only have 10 wedding group photos Some people naturally loathe spending time taking wedding group photos. Others absolutely love the idea of taking them. One thing both types of people have in common: on their wedding day, neither will want to spend a...
How to prevent losing all wedding photos: 10 things I do as a photographer
10 things I as a photographer do to prevent losing all wedding photos The biggest photography related fear of any couple getting married is that they end up with no photos of their wedding day. And unfortunately, it is not an irrational fear. It does happen, but there...
How to find a Handfasting Venue that’s Perfect for You
Find a handfasting venue that is perfect for you The first two things you need to decide on, before contacting any wedding suppliers, is a date and a venue for your handfasting, because they all will need to know this to give you a quote. If you are not sure about...
Your Beautiful Wedding Photo Gallery: in Colour or Black and White?
Your wedding photo gallery: in colour or black and white? Both!Do you wonder how your photographer will decide which photos of your wedding or handfasting to deliver in colour and which in black and white? And what do you do if there is a photo in colour that you want...
How to choose a date for your handfasting that is perfect for you
How to Choose a Date for Your HandfastingThere are a lot of things to consider when you choose a date for your handfasting. So here are the three main steps to help you decide on a date for your handfasting: You could just choose a date that is practical....
How to Set a Realistic Wedding Budget or Handfasting Budget
How to Set a Wedding Budget or Handfasting BudgetWell, first of all your budget will depend on what you can afford. The real question is how to allocate slices of this budget to the items and suppliers you need or want.Where to start with setting your wedding budget...
The True History of Handfasting
The History of Handfasting When it comes to the history of handfasting, there’s a lot to unpack and a lot of unknowns. Let's quickly recap...What is handfasting? Handfasting is a type of ancient wedding ceremony, which originated in the British Isles and in northern...
5 beautiful wedding traditions of pagan origin
You might be surprised about these 5 wedding traditions of pagan origin There are a lot of wedding traditions and rituals that just seems like they have always existed. And we never think about why we do them. Some of these are wedding traditions of pagan origin....
Is a Handfasting Legally Binding in these 8 Countries?
Can you get legally married in a handfasting ceremony? Is a handfasting legally binding? Yes! Somewhere! Indeed, here is a positive surprise for you: Yes, a handfasting can be a legally binding wedding ceremony. But not everywhere! Whether it is or not, depends first...
Your Handfasting Ceremony
What is a handfasting ceremony? Handfasting is a type of wedding ceremony prominent in pagan worship and increasingly popular for humanist ceremonies. If you’re looking for a general description of a handfasting, rather than the details of a handfasting ceremony, then...
The Ultimate Guide to Handfastings: What is a Handfasting
What is a Handfasting ?A handfasting is a type of wedding ceremony. It has ancient roots and it’s believed to be originating from the British Isles and northern Europe. During hand fasting, the hands of the couple are bound together with ribbon to symbolise the bond...
children at weddings and 3 strong reasons why I don’t share their photos without permission
Children at Weddings and 3 reasons Why I don’t share their photos without permission Children at weddings are cute and they really do make for the best un-posed photos and natural smiles.And they sell! If a bride with a two-year-old sees what fab photos I have...
Stoke Place Wedding Photographer Buckinghamshire – a perfect day!
Stoke Place Wedding Photographer:a Perfect Day! I was very excited when this enquiry dropped into my inbox. Not only because I had met the bride at her brother’s wedding many years ago and knew how lovely the family is, but also because of the venue they had chosen....
3 great reasons to have an outdoor wedding ceremony
3 great reasons to have an outdoor wedding ceremony Are you wondering whether or not to have an outdoors wedding or civil partnership? If you are in the UK, you are most likely concerned about what the weather will do on your big day. But don't dismiss and outdoor...
Outdoor Wedding Law Change: 5 Essential Things You Need to Know
5 Essential Things You Need to Know About the Outdoor Wedding Law ChangeSomething just hit the news and I am beyond excited! It has been spoken about for years, and was (almost) promised to happen a couple of years ago…and since then we’ve been waiting. The...
The Corona Wedding Roadmap: The Latest 2021 Wedding Restrictions Explained
2021 Wedding Restrictions: The Roadmap Explained Ha, Boris just said it, weddings are back on! From 8th March, you can get married again. The bad news is, that the number of guests will be restricted until at least the 21st June. What does that mean for our...
Avoiding Corona Wedding Restrictions in Surrey: Plan an Outdoor Wedding
Corona Wedding Restrictions: Are outdoor weddings the answer to the corona virus pandemic? A couple of years ago, outdoor weddings were a niche, and a small one at that.I squeezed myself into it simply because I love them. This year, we are finding our little niche...
Top 5 Outdoor Wedding Venues in Surrey
FIVE SURREY WEDDING VENUES FOR YOUR DREAM OUTDOOR WEDDING More and more venues are starting to cater for our wish to combine our love for the outdoors with our wedding. Some are all out there, others are traditional with an outdoor ceremony space. Some do have a...
Can I Get Married In 2020?
WHAT DOES THE GOVERNMENT SAY ABOUT YOUR 2020 WEDDING? Did you watch Boris last night? I did, too. Got any clarity about your wedding from it? Me neither. Well, the government released the roadmap for getting out of lockdown today and the good news is, it talks about...
Real Life Wedding: Rainy Wedding Day in the Cotswolds
What to Do When It Is Forecast to Rain on Your Wedding DayThe risk of rain is part and parcel of planning an outdoor wedding in the UK. But that is no reason not to do it! Here is a real-life example of the UK weather roulette, version: April wedding at the stunning...
How to Plan a Wedding During the Corona Virus Pandemic
YOUR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY AND COVID-19 (Obviously, things are changing all the time, but below information is correct at time of posting: 26th March 2020.)I received a meme yesterday morning saying:“Jan 1st: 2020, you gonna be MY year!Mar 25th: I am wiping my bum with...
The C-Word: Your Wedding and the Corona Virus
YOUR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY AND COVID-19 (Obviously, things are changing all the time, but below information is correct at time of posting: 26th March 2020.) Oh boy! Not the March you had planned? Me neither! Three weeks after showing first signs of illness, we are still...
What To Do If It Rains At Your Outdoor Wedding: 3 Things To Organise Early
Planning for a Wet WeddingIt’s no secret that in the UK, the weather can be a bit “disrespectful” of your outdoor wedding plans. So you better prepare in case it rains at your outdoor wedding.1. Have a Back-up Plan in Case It RainsThe most Important thing is to know...
Here’s a Stress Inducing Word: Wedding Budget
I know, no one wants to talk about money, but let’s be frank, we all have a budget. There is only one way to manage your budget and make sure you have enough left for the last bits you want to book or buy, and that is a spreadsheet. Boring, I know, but it will spare...
Are Bridesmaids Always Women?
Are bridesmaids always women and are best men always men?And do they have to be? That depends entirely on you. It is in fact an idea very prevalent in the English speaking world that has long fallen out of favour in many other countries. I suspect this goes back to...
Photography or Rock Music
How I became a Wedding Photographer in GuildfordIf you have read my FAQs, you will already know that my little girl’s dream was to become a singer. Sadly I soon realized that I have neither talent nor voice for the profession. But I didn’t give up. I love music, so I...
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